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Shamed for Being a Woman

I was 13 when I got my first period. Instead of celebrating this natural part of growing up, I was met with shame, whispers, and restrictions. My mother hurriedly pulled me aside, gave me an old cloth, and warned me not to talk about it. “Don’t touch the kitchen,” she said. “Stay away from the prayer room.” I didn’t understand why something happening inside my own body made me impure. At school, it was worse. We were never taught about menstruation properly. When I stained my uniform once, the boys laughed, and the girls looked away. I wanted to disappear. I stopped going to school during my periods because I had no proper pads—just a piece of cloth that never felt safe. Every month, I suffered in silence, afraid of leaking, afraid of being humiliated. Buying sanitary pads was another challenge. In our village, the shopkeeper would wrap them in layers of newspaper and hand them over as if I had asked for something shameful. Sometimes, I couldn’t afford them at all. Hygiene took a backs...

Blood Banks in India

  BLOOD BANKS IN INDIA   # ERAKHTKOSH: E BLOODBANK FINDER 1. https://ors.gov.in/ebloodbankportal /  Live blood status government site 2. www.indianblooddonors.com : Blood Helpline Call: 07966772377 3.   www.bloodconnect.org 7. www.friends2support.org (FRIENDS2SUPPORT) 8. www.indianredcross.org ( 011-23359379 ) 9. www.sankalpindia.net ( 9480044444 ) 10. www.hyderabadblooddonors.org (HYDERABAD) MUMBAI: 104 or 1910 ASHIRWAD BLOOD BANK (Dadar) - 022-24154826 , 022-24153790 , 022-24153387 St. George Blood Bank (Byculla) 022-22620344 , 22620242 Sir J.J Hospital Blood Bank 022-23739400 , 02223735555 Extn 022-22621468                        G.T Hospital Blood Bank (L.T marg) 022-22621464 /65/66/67 Extn -1351   NAVJIVAN BLOOD BANK (Borivali) 022-28935133, 022-28934122, 022-28918144 Indian Red Cross Society (Shaheed Bhagat Sing...

Trapped Behind a Screen

 I never thought that something as simple as sharing my thoughts online would turn my life into a nightmare. At first, social media felt like a space where I could express myself freely. But one post—one opinion—was all it took for my world to spiral out of control. The hateful comments started trickling in slowly, then turned into an unstoppable flood. Strangers mocked my appearance, questioned my character, and sent vulgar messages to my inbox. Soon, the abuse escalated—someone created fake accounts using my pictures, spreading lies about me. I was called names, threatened, and humiliated in ways I never imagined. The worst part was the helplessness. When I reported the accounts, they were taken down, but new ones kept appearing. The police weren’t helpful either; they dismissed it as “just online hate” and told me to ignore it. Friends suggested I log off social media, but why should I be the one to disappear? Why should I have to silence myself while my abusers roamed free? The...

Digital and Online Harassment: A Growing Threat to Women's Safety

The digital world has opened up vast opportunities for communication, education, and empowerment. However, it has also become a space where women face increasing threats of cyberbullying, online abuse, stalking, and digital exploitation. The anonymity of the internet has emboldened perpetrators, making online harassment a serious issue that requires urgent attention. The lack of stringent legal protections further exacerbates the problem, leaving many victims without proper recourse. Statistical Data on Digital Harassment Global Statistics: According to a 2021 study by Pew Research Center , 41% of Americans have experienced online harassment, with women being twice as likely to experience severe forms like stalking and sexual harassment. A 2020 report by Amnesty International found that 23% of women globally have experienced online abuse or harassment. The World Economic Forum (WEF) reported that 1 in 5 women have experienced online sexual harassment, with the numbers being highe...

Education and Literacy: Bridging the Gender Gap

Education is a fundamental human right and a powerful tool for personal and societal development. However, millions of girls and women across the world still face barriers to accessing quality education due to gender discrimination, cultural norms, and systemic inequalities. From limited access to schooling in rural areas to gender biases in educational institutions, these challenges hinder progress toward gender equality and economic empowerment. Statistical Data on Gend er Disparities in Education Global Statistics: According to UNESCO , 129 million girls worldwide are out of school, including 32 million of primary school age and 97 million of secondary school age . The World Bank reports that every additional year of schooling increases a girl’s future earnings by 10–20% . Women account for two-thirds of the world’s 773 million illiterate adults , highlighting persistent literacy gaps. India-Specific Data: As per the National Statistical Office (NSO) Survey (2021) , the female li...

Battling Discriminatory Marriage, Divorce, and Inheritance Laws in India

I have watched my sister suffer in ways no woman should ever have to. She was married off at a young age, believing she was stepping into a new life filled with love and respect. But what she got instead was a marriage built on control, inequality, and emotional abuse. When she finally gathered the courage to leave, she realized that the legal system was not designed to protect women like her—it was built to make them fight for even the most basic rights. The biggest challenge was the divorce process. Her husband refused to let her go, dragging the case for years. The legal system, slow and burdensome, seemed to favor him at every turn. He had financial resources, while she struggled to support herself and her child. Even after proving his mistreatment, she had to fight for custody and maintenance, as if seeking justice was a crime. Then came the battle for inheritance. My sister, like all daughters, had the legal right to a share of our ancestral property under the Hindu Succession Ac...

Highway Helpline Numbers

  NATIONAL HIGHWAY HELPLINE: 1033 1. Police: 112 OR 100 2. Fire: 101 3. Ambulance: 108 OR 102 4. National Highway Helpline: 1033 5. Disaster Management: 1078 6. National Highway Authority: 1800-11-6062 HIGHWAYS AND EMERGENCY NUMBERS Mumbai Pune Highway: 98224-98224 1. Ghat Section: 9890036083 2. Panvel Section: 9822498224 3. Pune Section: 9890036085 Hospital : Sterling: 022-27826969 , 022-27820332 Mumbai - Ahemdabad Highway 1. Ahmedabad, Ranasan Toll Plaza: 9909923005 2. Ahmedabad, Ramol Toll Plaza: 9909923004 Mumbai - Nasik Highway: 02553-220001 Ahemdabad - Baroda Highway: 987962 6000 Ahemdabad - Udaipur Highway 1. Ratanpur to Kherwara, (NH8) - 9929992272 2. Kherwara to Udaipur - 9929992271 Yamuna Highway ( Noida ): 18001027777 Noida Toll Bridge ( DND Flyover ): 95120-2515600 Delhi - Jaipur Highway [ Jaipur - Manesar Highway]: 930 936 6001 / 0142-2231999 [ Gurgaon – Delhi Highway ]: 971 789 0100 / 0124-4787809 Madhyapradesh Bhopal - Bypass: 0...